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I'm a Pisces and I've always identified well with my sign. We tend to be mysterious and fascinating to other signs. I know that also translates into difficult to figure out. I get it. We aren't always easy to understand. Women in general can be difficult to understand, so a Pisces woman should really come with a field guide. And if you're trying to date one of us, it can seem like a daunting task in the beginning.
As a Pisces myself, I can attest that we are mysterious, sensitive, and lifelong nurturers. We can be difficult to understand because our empathetic nature leads us to experience a full range of emotions depending on our environment and what’s going on around us. Pisces feel deeply, love deeply and are incredibly loyal. We are intuitive, accepting and understanding by nature. A Pisces woman is hard to pin down, but when it comes to dating and relationships, there are some sure fire ways to keep a Pisces engaged and interested.
Don’t come on too strong.
You are almost always going to have to make the first move with a Pisces. We may be standoffish at first, but only because we are shy. The one definitive way of turning off a Pisces is by coming on too strong, too quickly. Keep things easy-going and light until she feels more comfortable around you.
Do something creative with her.
Pisces women are imaginative and creative. We are inspired by art, music, and writing. Take her to a painting class. Teach her a chord on the guitar. Make something together – it doesn’t matter if it’s a garden, a piece of furniture or a meal. Create something that you both have a part in and it will make her feel closer to you and more connected.
Compliment her and make her feel valued.
I think this probably goes for all women, but a Pisces woman likes to feel needed and loved. She’s a nurturer and will make sure you are taking care of yourself. She will take on your problems as if they are her own and go to battle for you whenever necessary. Tell her you appreciate her and all that she does. Give her small compliments when she doubts herself. Make sure she knows you need her. It will go a long way.
Don’t embarrass her.
Pisces have a very hard time with rejection. It’s why we have such a difficult time saying no to someone else because we don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings or make him/her feel rejected. We hate feeling embarrassed and may feel “put on the spot” in situations even if we aren’t. It leads back to our sensitive nature. We tend to internalize and overthink things and our feelings are hurt very easily, even if we hide it well. Make a Pisces feel comfortable with you and she will openly appreciate it.
Make her laugh.
Because Pisces are naturally empathetic people, we like to surround ourselves with positive, happy people that make us laugh. We tend to take on the feelings around us and are always going to be drawn to someone that can make us laugh easily.
Go on an adventure with her.
Pisces love adventure and new challenges, so try something new with her. We typically like dominant partners who will take the lead. We tend to be a bit indecisive, so we appreciate someone who can make a plan. Do something exciting together and watch her light up.
Show her passion, often.
Pisces tend to be the most romantic and sentimental of all the signs, so passion is an important part of the relationship. Steamy make out sessions, long glances, hand holding, deep conversation, soft touches and kisses, and having a hard time keeping your hands off each other are all big items on a Pisces relationship checklist. Pisces believe that true love can exist between two people and we seek out a deep connection with our love interests. Show her your passion for her, for your family and friends, for your job, or in an interest you have and it will be an instant turn on.
Don’t be afraid to give her some space.
Because we tend to be introverts, sometimes a Pisces woman needs some space and time to herself. Try your best to be supportive and understand that it isn’t personal. We tend to get overwhelmed with emotion easily and sometimes just need a break to figure out those emotions on our own.
Pisces are complex thinkers who need to be emotionally and creatively stimulated. We are kind, loving, and always want everyone to be happy. We try to see the best in people and are typically the first to offer help to someone else. We love to feel needed and taking care of others is second nature to us. We are compassionate, giving and will truly try to see things from your point of view. Once committed, Pisces can be loyal, even to a fault.
If you have a Pisces woman in your life, show her the same love and compassion she shows you. You’ll always have a caring and supportive partner with a Pisces. If she lets you in, you can look forward to a deep, emotional connection. Inspire her creative and passionate side and she’ll go out of her way to make sure you’re happy, not just with the relationship, but also in life.
Also published on Elite Daily as: 8 Things To Remember When You’re Trying To Keep A Pisces Interested